haha! have fun at highschool today NERDS. i’m gonna be doing cool ADULT stuff like sleeping WHENEVER i want and CRYING
Going to start translating next week’s chapter tomorrow. Easy does it.
Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
You are not suppose to bleed, that is correct. But the first time, it is possible for it to hurt. There’s a difference between It’s Suppose to Hurt and it Can and Likely Will Hurt.
A lot of people, the first time are very nervous and anxious. This can hinder and cut this ‘Sufficiently Aroused’ and make it a bit more difficult. Also, if it is the first time for you to have a large, phallic object put into you, it is possible it will feel uncomfortable. The degree of uncomfortableness varies from person to person.
But saying it WON’T hurt if done right is a bit silly. There is a Possibility for it to hurt, especially if you are nervous. It won’t be soul-wrenching pain, but it can vary from Uncomfortable to “Stop, it’s a bit much right now.”
An inexperienced person is likely to be nervous and anxious, which all of this hinders proper lubrication and relaxing of muscles. So take a few deep breaths, relax, and try to enjoy yourself? After all, sex is suppose to be about pleasure.
The Homestuck Fandom is literally the worst fandom and has absolutely no redeeming qualities.
If you think otherwise that just means that you are a part of the Homestuck fandom and therefore your opinion doesn’t matter because you are, in fact, shit. Just like your fandom.