Theres ways to counteract each of these. if it werent 4:30 am i’d explain it to you, but its 4:30 am and I dont have time for a big ol peptalk
if you have a specific question as to which one to get past send a question my way and I’ll do my best
This never stops being relevant. I used to suffer from the ‘heaven’s reward fallacy’ a lot, and it burned my ass that some people could get away with anything.
The feeling of having done the right thing is honestly the reward in itself.